Learn How To Give Head and Make Him Melt!
If you want to learn how to give head, then you must learn from a man.
I can’t help but chuckle when reading popular womens mags on sex tips for women because most of them are complete b.s.
I wonder if they’re doing this on purpose to keep everyone guessing so they buy more magazines, guides and products… but that’s another story.
You’re about to learn how to give head the way a man likes it!
Whether you’re man rocks your world and you want to do the same for him, you want him to try harder at pleasing you, or you just don’t think your skills are very good, you’ve come to the right place.
The first thing you HAVE TO realize when it comes to giving the best head is that your man doesn’t want you to give him a great blowjob…
He wants you to LOVE GIVING him a great blowjob!
NOTHING turns us on more than knowing how much we turn you on and how much you’re enjoying the experience.
I know this might seem hard to believe sometimes especially considering that a lot of guys just want to cum. But the truth is that once a man is a little more experienced and has had the opportunity to be with a woman who was totally into the moment and in a complete state of bliss, we want nothing less than to see that from you again.
This is especially true when you’re giving us head. It’s such a physically pleasurable thing for us but when we see that you enjoy just as much as (or even more) than we do, IT DRIVES US NUTZ!
So get into it. Do whatever you have to make it more fun and exciting for you.
If that means playing with your pussy while you’re going down on him, do it!
If that means teasing him while you’re going down, do it!
Look into his eyes, wink at him and every once in a while stop for just a second to tell him how much it’s turning you on, how much you want him and how much you LOVE sucking his cock.
Surprise blowjobs are one of the best ways to show us how much you like giving oral sex.
Try waking him up in the morning with a great BJ.
When he comes home (or anytime at all for that matter) run upto him, drop to your knees, rip his pants off and start doing yo thang!
If he’s on the couch watching the game, sit next to him and say (with that sweet little girl voice), “Baby can I please suck your cock while you watch the game”.
All these things will absolutely drive him wild! Once you’ve got the attitude down, the physical techniques are easy!
How To Give Head Step 2 – Be Confident
I know, a lot of guys just sit back, barely move and usually don’t say a word… this does NOT mean you’re bad at it. On the contrary. It’s because he’s enjoying it SO MUCH that he just wants to fully feel and experience it.
He doesn’t know that you want to hear him give you compliments and tell you how amazing you’re making him feel.
Here’s what to do in this case:
If you stop for even just a moment, his first though is “Keep Going!”
So stop, ask him a question like “does that feel good” and don’t continue until he answers you.
As soon as he answers you, keep going.
This is called anchoring.
It builds a psychological trigger in his brain that says “if you want her to keep going, you’ve got to tell her “insert your anchor here”.
You can easily do it just like that or right after he tells you, say something like “it turns me on so much when you say things like that”.
These are very simple tools you can use to train you man to be more vocal and expressive with you in bed.
How To Give Head 101 – The Basics
Before I give you the keep fundamentals to giving great head, you need to understand why we (physically) enjoy it so much.
Apart from the fact that you taking the most intimate part of use in your mouth, there are 3 key elements that make receiving a blowjob feel so great.
1 – the moisture / wetness
Just like it feels so great to be inside your pussy when it’s wet, the same is true for a blowjob.
Most guys will all agree that the wetter, the better.
So if you really want to drive him wild, use your saliva. Make his cock as wet as you can and use that to your advantage so you can easily slide him in and out.
Also remember that it’s a visual turn on for us.
So while you’re sucking him off (if you’re making him real wet), then you’ll most likely get some on your chin, cheeks, lips and all around your face… don’t be so quick to wipe yourself off.
Seeing that sparkle of spit on your cheeks while you give us passionate head makes the entire experience that much hotter!
2 – The warmth
That mixture of warmth along with the “wetness” is just incredible.
There’s not really much you can do about this nor do you have to. The inside of your mouth provides all the natural heat you need.
Remember above when I said many magazines and mainstream websites give horrible advice when it comes to pleasing guys in bed? Well one of the WORST “tips” I’ve ever read is to take an ice cube in your mouth while you’re blowing your guy.
WORST ADVICE EVER!
Natural heat is part of the 3 core elements that make a blowjob so great!
3 – The sensation of contact
A simple touch to a mans penis can feel good but here are some things you can do to make your head game even better.
Suction – Now PLEASE remember that not all men like the same amount of pressure, or suction.
Some guys will want you to suck at a medium to tight pressure while others just want to feel the inside of your mouth grace his shaft.
Personally, I’m part of the latter. You don’t have to give me any suction at all… in fact if you do, I won’t like it.
So this is one thing that you’ll want to ask the guy you’re with.
You don’t even need to ask, try both out and pay attention to his reactions. You’ll be able to tell real quick if he doesn’t like what you’re doing.
USE YOUR TONGUE!
When a woman knows how to move her tongue while giving a blowjob… WOW! It’s INCREDIBLE!
The easiest way to make good use of it is by just making sure that it’s rubbing along the underneath of the shaft. This alone feels amazing but when you learn how to move it at the same time (takes some practice but very doable), it’s even better.
The meaty part under the erection is very sensitive. Not so much in the sense that you should be careful with it, more in the sense that it feels great when you apply the right kind of pressure there.
Try placing your 4 fingers on top of his shaft with your thumb pushing on the “meaty” part on the bottom.
Doing this while you suck and lick his head will feel astonishing!
Another very sensitive part of the penis is right under the head.
There’s a little “stringy” piece of skin that connects the head to the rest of the shaft… it’s insanely sensitive and just a lick can send your guy to the moon.
If you don’t like to take him too deep, you can suck his head while moving your tongue side to side on this little area.
I’ve made a completely separate video on how to deep throat if you’re interested.
Many guys like the sensation it gives and if you want to give the best head, you’ll want to look into it.
One last thing I feel the need to say.
If your guy is forcing you to go deep or give head at all for that matter, put him in his place!
That the nicest way I could think of saying that.
A blowjob should be something you want to do for him, not something he makes you do.
If he doesn’t like how you’re doing it, let him know that you can stop completely, or go find some other guy who will appreciate it more.
I hope you’ve enjoyed this guide on how to give head and use it to make your man melt.