If you really want to know how to please a man in bed then you’re going to have to understand this one very important thing.
Many women believe that men only want sex or at least that’s what they want more than anything.
This is completely false.
What men really want is to make you happy.
If a man feels like he’s the reason you’re always in a great mood, nothing will please him more.
This is true in your relationship as much as it’s the case in the bedroom.
For a mature man who’s experienced it before, nothing will make him happier than seeing the look on your face and the movements of your body while he’s making you orgasm.
Now don’t get me wrong, not all men have reached this level of maturity and if he’s never truly experienced it before, than it can be easy to believe all he cares about is his own orgasm.
Also keep in mind that a man can be in his forties and still be immature in this sense.
But when it’s obvious that he gave you a very intense orgasm (or series of them), and you can’t get enough of his body, he is yours!
When he’s not satisfying you in the bedroom…
Don’t think that faking it is the way to go.
As much as he might think (and maybe even act like) he’s a stud in the bedroom, it’s not about that.
Unless he feels your deep love and/or admiration for him, he’s not fully satisfied.
SCRATCH THAT!
Unless he feels truly WORSHIPPED by you, he’s not truly satisfied!
If this is the case for you then the best way to get more of what you both want is by talking with him.
I know that many women have a hard time with this and feel that if they do, they’ll hurt his ego and possibly damage his self-esteem but there are ways to go about it without doing this.
Just give him simple directions when he’s doing something wrong. Don’t ever tell him “that’s wrong”. Instead, just say “a little to the left baby”.
Trust me, he wants to make you feel great and by telling him how, you let him experience this great gift.
Once he’s giving you more of what you want in bed, now you can aim to please him.
Also finding and showing some articles or videos that teach what you like can be helpful as well.
I made a video a while ago that a lot of women really agree with and like. Watch it and if you agree with what I share in it, show it to him. Or if you want to be a little less obvious, place a link to it on your facebook page and write something like “this guy really knows his stuff”.
Obviously he’ll check it out and because the thing that drives us the most is your happiness, he’ll watch and listen.
Check it out here: Best Sex Positions To Make Her Orgasm
When he’s giving you everything you want in bed…
Here’s how to please a man in bed once he’s doing the same for you.
The first thing you should understand is that foreplay is not nearly as important to us as it is to you. Once we’ve got a hard on, we’re ready to go.
All that teasing can amplify our arousal but at the end of the day, we just want to get it on!
What gets us much more worked up is to see how much you’re into it.
ATTITUDE!
Your attitude is the single biggest “asset” you have to really please a man in bed and drive him wild!
When a girl is completely into me and there’s nothing she’d rather be doing right now, that’s the biggest turn on for a man.
Also make me feel the dominant role if you want me to play it.
Ask for my permission and you’re stroking my deepest animal desires.
Say something like “baby can I suck you cock… pleeease?” This will drive any man completely crazy!
Act like a little girl who really wants her toy (commoo-oon, I want it… just let me taste it a little).
*Just writing that and picturing it is turning me on.*
Why a blowjob is so AMAZING for us…
There are several different reasons but the fact that you want to have that most intimate part of us in your mouth is extremely arousing and even fulfilling to a point.
We all want to feel wanted and when you want that parts of us that gives us so much pleasure, WOW!
So while you’re riding him (for example, it could be during any position really), get off your guy and start giving him head.
A surprise blowjob out of nowhere (when we didn’t have to ask or hint at it), is the best way to make that pleasure zone of ours feel wanted.
The sexiest part of a woman’s body, is her smile…
Of course we’re physically attracted to a body that’s in shape but if you’ve got a smirk of pleasure or sincere smile while we’re getting it on, I’m over the moon!
There is definitely much more when it comes to the physical side to of how to please a man in bed but what I’ve shared with you in this article is without a doubt the most important.
Before you even think of learning how to deep throat, how to ride him the best or any other physical “techniques”, take a look at your BEDROOM ATTITUDE!
I think it was Ludacris who first said “I want a lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets”.
I’m going to leave you with something that a lot of guys probably wont like me saying but I don’t care. My goal is to help as many people and couples be and do whatever it takes to be truly sexually satisfied.
DON’T EVER SETTLE!!!
When it comes to the whole battle of the sexes, there’s no doubt you can sometimes be difficult to understand and sometimes frustrating… but there’s so much knowledge out there these days that there really is no excuse for a man to not go out there and learn how to give his woman orgasms.
It might take some time, and some “practice”… but if it’s obvious that he doesn’t care or he’s not even trying…
WHAT ARE YOU DOING?
Leave his sorry ass because I guarantee you that there are many men out there who are learning how to satisfy women in the bedroom and you deserve to have one of them!
So if you’re not currently having the sex life you desire, use the knowledge I’ve given you here to shape your man and make him want to figure it out.
And if you are enjoying truly satisfying and (always expanding) love life, use this knowledge to give your man the same.
Love isn’t something you get, it’s something you give. When you give it, it will come back to you… if it’s not, leave his ass and find a real man.
I hope you have a much better understanding about how to please a man and use it to make your relationship truly magic.
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